My Sister.

Wow. Never did I think that I would lose both my dad and younger sister within five months. It seems like yesterday when I received the call about my dad [on June 15th] and was completely shocked to receive a call about Melissa [on November 14th]. The image above is the very last photo that I took of my sister…just this past August. Isn’t she beautiful?!

I wrote a blog about my sister last January- on her 30th birthday- you can read it here.

Melissa was a warrior and a lover of life. She knew how fragile life really is and rarely put anything off “until tomorrow.” Goodness, such a lesson that I want to learn and take seriously. Even though the odds were stacked up against her from the day she took her first breath on this earth- she lived each day to the fullest. The doctors even spoke death over her life at birth. However, this did not dictate the way Melissa would choose to live her life. There was no other option other than to live it. And to live it well. To endure whatever may come her way.

Melissa has finished her race and is now in the arms of Jesus. She has been reunited with our dad and her body has been made new. She is whole. She has received her healing!! My sisters and I were really believing that this year would be a BIG one for Melissa, but little did we know how big it really would be. She has seen the face of God and is in His presence! Pretty incredible.

I wanted to THANK YOU all for loving me [once again] through this season in life. These are the moments that you think you can never make it through, but I am. God is Faithful and He is Extravagant Love.

Melissa loved that I did a video blog for my dad….so I thought it was only appropriate [and an honor] to record a video for MY SISTER. I’ll be posting the video tomorrow….so be sure and check back!

I pray that you all have a very Merry Christmas and be intentional about all of your relationships. Life is short. So very short.

XOXO

12.17.10

Rachel Catlett - BEAUTIFUL! I’m sorry for your loss Kelli, especially so close to Christmas. I lost my amazing Aunt the day after Christmas last year and I still can’t believe it even happened. But then again, I’m so very happy for her, she’s in the arms of Jesus and completely healed. Your sister gets to be in His presence every moment for all eternity.

“Meanwhile, the moment we get tired in the waiting, God’s Spirit is right alongside helping us along. If we don’t know how or what to pray, it doesn’t matter. He does our praying in and for us, making prayer out of our wordless sighs, our aching groans. He knows us far better than we know ourselves, knows our pregnant condition, and keeps us present before God. That’s why we can be so sure that every detail in our lives of love for God is worked into something good.” Romans 8:26-28

12.17.10

stephanie - what a beautiful, precious person she was, and how blessed she was to have you as her sister! i am sorry for your loss here on earth, but so happy for heaven’s gain. i hope you find comfort in knowing that you’ll meet her again. ((hugs))

12.17.10

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12.17.10

Holly Farrar - Kelli- This blog was such a beautiful way of remembering Melissa. It brings tears to my eyes and really seeing how life really is too short to be bitter and angry a little things. The Lord blessed you with such a wonderful sister for many years and I was blessed to be a part of your lives years ago when I babysat you. I pray that the Lord gives you peace throughout this Christmas Season and know that your Dad and Melissa will always be your angels and watch over you and your family. My love to you.

12.17.10

Gene Pineda - Kelli, seeing these pics of you two so little reminds me of Missy yelling “WAKE UP!” in my face!!! LOL! Such good memories of you and your family just bless me. Thanks so much for posting this.

12.17.10

vanessa warren - i love how you love your family, kelli. you have an incredible one! your dad & melissa still live on in YOU … what a great mix you are of the both of them! i love knowing where they are. what comfort that is to the soul. i am constantly in awe of how God carries the hurting through deep dark times such as these. we mourn but we mourn with hope. hope that we too will be reunited & made whole. that IS incredible.
i love you, sweet sister. continuing to lift you in prayer. God will continue to use you & your families story as a witness to his greatness. xoxo

12.17.10

Jaime - kelli just want to say HUGS sweet lady! You walk in love with such beauty it is inspiring! <3

12.18.10

Laura Dodd - Kelli,
I love the pictures of her and I love that she is now with her Savior!! What a wonderful hope we have in Christ! I pray that you and your family have a good Christmas and that it continues to be a time of healing!

12.21.10

CharisWarrell - your photos are stunning and these words are very precious. Thank you for sharing this and for sharing so much of the love of Jesus in this piece. you are so right… your sister & father has seen the most amazing thing – the love and grace of God. I pray blessings over your family this Christmas time. Happy Christmas and heres to a blessed New Year x Charis

2.7.11

Alisia K - I am so very sorry for your loss.
I can’t even begin to imagine.
xx

2.7.11

Mel McGaughey - Kel, I had no idea. I somehow missed this completely and am just now seeing this. Girl, I’m so sorry.

I wish I could have known her, but I look forward to getting to know her in heaven-we’ll have all the time in the world to talk! πŸ˜‰ She sounds like an absolutely beautiful and inspiring soul, much like her sister!! =)

Love you girl!

Hugs,
Mel

GIFTED MAGAZINE

I am so excited to help launch the latest fabulous project by Creature Comforts, the Gifted Magazine. Ez has become a sweet friend and I was honored to receive the call to contribute to this BIG IDEA.

My contribution was another fantastic collaboration with my dear friend, butterflyspArks!

We spent a few days here in Whitefish, Montana to create an early “Woodland Wonderland.” We could not have done this without some of our favorite etsy sellers! A BIG THANK YOU TO::

Red Velvet Art

OhMyDeer

Love, California

Monkeys On The Roof

The Fabled Needle

Jane Joss

LayerXLayer

My Adobe Cottage

Kitschy Galore

Slave of the Passions

Mema

Monkeys Always Look


Ez, I love everything that you dream up and create. You are a true artist and one that is constantly inspiring me. Thank you for this opportunity. It was an honor to collaborate with you!

**HURRY! Go and check out the festive projects, awesome freebies, delightful interviews, and a mega gift guide that will hopfully inspire and delight you throughout the Holidays!

XOXO

11.1.10

jamie - what a wonderful and inspiring mag! your stuff looks amazing! congrats!

11.2.10

Brooke Boling - KELLI – STOP IT!!! This is so so cute. You are amazing girl.

11.2.10

Jaime - I LOVE IT!!!!! It is beautiful, inspiring, and just plum fun!!! Everyone involved should give themselves a little pat on the back! <3

11.2.10

Alicia - Wow! So much inspiration and SO MANY beautiful pictures! It’s wonderful to see so much good work in one place!

11.3.10

KELLI TRONTEL - THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH!!! This project was so much fun!

11.3.10

Mandy Lynne - How perfect & creative the two of you are together!
Great projects.. loved the whole magazine! πŸ™‚

The Daily Verse & a GIVEAWAY!

I’m super excited to announce a special giveaway hosted by Kat Davis from The Daily Verse! I signed up to receive her encouraging emails over 5 years ago….so it’s pretty exciting to be able to talk about something that has grown from an email subscription to a BOOK!! I love seeing ideas grow.

While I was in Nashville last week, I had the opportunity to spend a little bit of time with Kat and aside from taking some new headshots of her….she answered a few questions for me. I wanted you to get to know her and the story behind The Daily Verse.

THE GIVEAWAY::
For a chance to win your own DAILY VERSE book [and yes, I already bought mine!!!], sign your name below and tell me who/what encourages you in life. Giveaway is open until Wednesday.

ONE ON ONE with Kat::
WHAT IS THE STORY BEHIND THE NAME?
The actual title “The Daily Verse” didn’t become called that until I had been doing The Daily Verse for about 8 months or so; when I started it out, I didn’t “call” it anything – one of my friends encouraged me to call my commentary “Kat’s Korner” so that people would know that it was me offering the commentary. So I did that for a while and when I started working at ForeFront Records, a web-guru friend of mine named Josh Snyder insisted that I “buy a domain” – which at that point (remember, we’re talking 10+ years ago!) I didn’t even know what that meant – but I thought I’d keep it simple and just call it what it was/is “The Daily Verse” – and that’s how it got it’s name!

HOW DID YOU COME UP WITH IT?
Just before graduating college, I had just come into a relationship with Christ. I grew up going to church, and I knew about Jesus, but I didn’t actually have a relationship with Him that I was aware of. Several months later, I had the opportunity to move to Nashville, and when I did I didn’t have any friends or family around me – so I spent a lot of time alone and in prayer. I would get up every morning and drive to work, and I’d sit out in the parking lot from 7:00am until 8:30am and do different Bible studies, etc. I started to get really passionate about the things I was learning about God and the Word and was just busting the seams to share what I was learning – so I picked 3 of my fellow intern-friends and started to send them a short “blurb” about what I was learning each day. My little blurbs started getting talked about with other people in the building, and before I knew it, I had 30+ people expecting to hear a “good Word” from my studies each morning. So, in hindsight, it totally happened without me intending to happen – but I’ve decided to stay a good steward of it, and just as it started, people just kind of spread the word about it via word-of-mouth and I’ve got several thousand subscribers to my daily email list. The nice thing about it is that it doubles as an accountability measure for me – in order to send out The Daily Verse everyday, I have to be in the Word – so it’s a nice thing for people to receive, but much like God’s character, I’m being blessed in the process, too!

DID YOU EVER THINK THAT YOUR EMAIL SUBSCRIPTIONS WOULD GROW AS MUCH AS THEY DID? AND EVEN BETTER….AN OPPORTUNITY FOR A BOOK?
I had no idea they’d grow as much as they have; I haven’t actually started doing any “intentional marketing” about The Daily Verse until this past year – once I decided to self-publish a book. And it’s kind of funny – I’ve always wanted to write a book, but have always said “I’m not sure what I’d write about.” A few years ago, my Mom said to me, “Well, Kat, don’t you have several years worth of content?” – and it hit me like a ton of bricks! I had my book already written – all I had to do was put it together! I’m so glad I did – and now I want to keep writing – perhaps Volume 2 is in the works!

WHEN/HOW DID YOU KNOW THAT THE DAILY VERSE WAS TO BE SOMETHING THAT YOU NEEDED TO BE DEVOTED TO FULL TIME? [was there a transition?] I send out my daily encouragements to my fellow intern-friends for about a month before I realized that people were actually looking forward to getting them, and if they didn’t, they felt they were missing something they enjoyed helping them start our their day. So, I’d say it was about a month before I realized that I’m going to “do this” – and I’ve always said to God, “If I’m supposed to stop doing this, I’m going to trust You to show me.” So far, He hasn’t pulled the plug, so I’m continuing to do it!

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE VERSE? Wow that’s a hard question – I guess I’d have to say that it’s the first Scripture I learned after I came to know Christ; when I came to know Him, it was in the midst of a crisis in my life – and I asked my friend who had taught me about having a relationship with Jesus, “Is there anything in this book called the Bible that talks about asking for protection when you’re afraid someone is out to get you?” – and of course, there is plenty in the Bible about that – but the passage she led me to was Psalm 91 – so I’d have to quote that as my favorite, however some others that would vy for first place would be Jeremiah 29:11,12 and Isaiah 40:31.

WHAT MAKES YOU SMILE? Ha ha – well, that question! A lot makes me smile; I’m a pretty intense, passionate person and I love to laugh and have fun. My love language is words of affirmation, so if anyone tells me something that is (geuninely) nice or complimentary, I can’t help but smile; my dog Molly Pigg makes me smile every time I see her or think about her; I love her like a child. My job makes me smile – I’m so honored to get to do what I do and work with the people I work with that I’m constantly amazed at how blessed I am – every time I think about it, I smile. My family and friends make me smile. Awkward moments make me smile…and I have a lot of them! Warm weather makes me smile and coming home from traveling always makes me smile – there’s no place like home! When I realize that something God has done through me has impacted someone, that REALLY makes me smile…that’s probably the big one right there.

…..Kat, THANK YOU so very much for your time. You have encouraged me more than you will ever know. It was an honor to photograph you and to hear more about your beautiful story. Congrats again on the book! XOXO

You can sign up for the DAILY VERSE here.
You can order the BOOK here.

*****CONGRATS TO SHAUNA for winning the DAILY VERSE*****
Thank you EVERYONE for joining in on the discussion of what INSPIRES you! All of your comments were beautiful and so meaningful. Thank you for sharing your hearts. XOXO

10.26.10

Kat - I’m not commenting to win one of my own books – I have a few here in stock (ha ha) but wanted to say “thanks,” Kelli for the interview and the great photo op – you are amazingly talented and I’m excited for you, big-time!

10.26.10

Shauna - I am blessed to have many people who encourage me in my life, but I had a tough summer and God used my total weakness to teach me how to let His Word encourage me when my go-to people could not. That has been a hard but totally priceless journey

10.26.10

Carmel Phillips - My encouragement is my favorite verse – I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Philippians 4:13 My mom used to say that to me anytime I was struggling with something, and I find myself repeating this same verse to my own children. I’m also a big fan of Yoda and his wise quote, “Do or do not; there is no try.” πŸ˜‰

10.26.10

Nicole - I am blessed to be surrounded by so many loving family and friends who provide me with much ongoing encouragement. Most times though, my biggest relief from discouragement comes from knowing that God has a plan for me and it’s His way, not my way.

10.26.10

Nicole - I am blessed to be surrounded by so many loving family and friends who provide me with much ongoing encouragement. Most times though, my most important encouragement comes from knowing that God has a plan for me and it’s His way, not my way.

10.27.10

kristen roe. - The daily verse always encourages me to carry on and just do the next thing. Love the girl behind it whom i have never met. She’s just bound to be awesome. Thanks for doing the giveaway, though I’ll be buying many just in time for Christmas.

10.27.10

Kat - hey kristen roe! thanks for the encouragement – i’m glad you’ll be getting some books for Christmas – I’m thinking it’s going to be a great gift-item for the new year! Glad you’re digging TDV – much apprecaited!! ~kat (author, the daily verse)

10.27.10

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10.28.10

Cindi - Thanks for the daily verse. I love reading the verse and then reading your take on in for our lives today. It’s a great encouragement. For me my parents, especially my mom, are my greatest encouragers. Without them I would not be the person I am today!

10.28.10

Rachael S - “Back in the Day” when MySpace was the hit thing, I saw a link to the Daily Verse on a friend’s wall. Being a new Christian at the time, I didn’t know where to start in the bible. It was very overwhelming. I decided to subscribe to the Daily Verse and it helped me immensely learn what the bible said and Kat’s encouraging words at the bottom helped bring scripture into my life. Coming from a family who doesn’t know Jesus, the people who have been the most encouraging in my life would be my spiritual parents who took me under their wings and started mentoring/discipling me, teaching me about the bible, and really helped me get a solid foundation in my new walk with Jesus. Years later, I still LOVE to read the Daily Verse and chuckle with amusement to see how the Holy Spirit uses a verse when I need to hear it the most.

11.2.10

Donna G. - My daily encouragement is meeting the Lord in prayer.

11.2.10

Donna G. - Haha! I just stumbled upon this website, and upon closer reading, I see the drawing has probably already occurred.

11.4.10

stephanie - I’m ovbiously too late for the giveaway, but I am SO glad I found your blog (via Gifted). How awesome it is! And I’m loving this book, too – I love girls who love Jesus. πŸ™‚

LOVE..is the best thing ever.

L O V E D.
This is exactly how Reed and I felt as we put closure to one season and celebrated the beginning of something NEW with our dear friends in Nashville, before we moved across the country.
I hate goodbyes. I am such a cry baby. And everyone knew it that evening. Along with the tears was plenty of laughter and for those that know me….REALLY KNOW ME……I love to laugh! The evening was perfect in every way.

T H A N K Y O U ‘ S
I just want to thank my dear friends Alison Hillenbrand and Heather Marvin for hosting such a wonderful get together and for making such wonderful desserts- you girls know how to throw a party! All of the [AMAZING] food was provided by Ralph Dumphy [the GM at Big River Brewery]- who just so happens to be the best boss that I had ever ever worked for!

P H O T O G R A P H E R S
Oh there were many of you and everyone pitched in to help document the evening. Thank you miss Sara Harper for documenting the details and for thinking about doing a video! I LOVED it! And to Amy Connor and David Molnar for taking all the photos that I wanted with EVERYONE there!

Such powerful words and prayers were spoken over us and I am beyond thankful for the honesty of our friends who shared, without reserve. This very evening confirmed all of my ranting about the importance of having a community of people in your life. People that know you. People that love you. People that support you. Goodness, it’s such a beautiful picture in life. An important one too!

I could say something about each and every person in the photos below, but this post could get SUPER LONG! It was an honor to live life with you….and those who weren’t able to make it out that night. You are family to us and we love you dearly.

XOXO,
kelli&reed

9.3.10

Zander & Janine - We miss you guys already! Thx for posting these gorgeous photos..

9.3.10

Aunt Vicki - I cried as I looked at your pics. The love these people have for you and Reed is so evident. I love how they prayed over you as they sent you off on a new adventure. Doing life together with Jesus… there just isn’t anything better than that. Kalispell- you are in for a huge blessing with Reed and Kelli in your midst!!

9.3.10

Tammy Molnar - awww!!! miss you guys terribly. of course we would get a goofy shot in there.;) such good times. much love from us!!

9.3.10

Alison Hillenbrand - You both are already so missed here. But we are in great anticipation of the incredible reports from you, on what our God is doing in MT. Love you!

9.3.10

Brooke Boling - So Sorry we missed this evening with you guys…but I am happy that I got to spend that day with you my friend. Can’t wait to catch up.

9.5.10

Amy Conner - LOVE these photos! So good to look at them!! Missing you terribly. I know a new life is keeping you busy. I have a feeling you are doing just fine and that makes missin you so much a bit easier. Love you mucho!

A Season of Change

I hope you all have been enjoying your summer! I can’t believe how quickly the end of August is approaching us.

Well, as many of you know this summer has been a wild ride for me. Life hasn’t quite been the same since June 15th, but I am realizing that it won’t ever go back to being the same, but different….and in a good way. I am embracing change. I am walking forward….towards the things that my heart truly longs for.

Speaking of change. My husband and I have moved from Nashville, TN to Kalispell, MT!!! Talk about embracing change, right?!? Reed is a business man. An entrepreneur. A dreamer. A visionary. And he has been a huge support to me and my business. However, he has always dreamed of owning his own business and we had been praying about the perfect opportunity to come our way. Well, it did. And this opportunity just so happened to be in his hometown in Montana.

We will be opening up a self-serve yogurt/ coffee shop in downtown Whitefish. We are scheduled to close on our building space at the end of September so we have been busy dreaming up ideas for our new shop! I am so excited to partner with Reed in the this new venture. As I mentioned before…..Reed has been the backbone of my photography business and that is something that he is sill passionate about and I will continue to create, but in a new way [of course!].

My calendar was filled to the max with photosessions before I left Nashville so I’ll be posting many more Tennessee families up on here in the next few days….it was a HOT summer, but my clients nailed it! I can’t wait to show you!

Thank you for being such a support to me. I care about each and every one of you that visit my blog. Will you JOIN me on this new adventure?!? My blog posts may look a little different from the past, but Im willing to take that risk….to have you be part of this with us!

Here are a few iPhone photos from our travels this past week….::

8.25.10

Elise - Ahh Kelli! I am just so thrilled for you and Reed. Love these photos from the road, but am expecting a video soon TOO!!! πŸ˜‰ I so miss your face. Montana trip SOON! Love you.

8.25.10

Anya Elise - Congratulations to you and Reed! That is so exciting and an adventure to be embraced indeed.

Can’t wait to see what you create in your new, Montana life!

8.25.10

kelly ann - these photos are fantastic! so many blessings sent your way as you start this new adventure! πŸ™‚

8.25.10

Jaime - Looking beautiful, and sounding excited about all the new stuff! So happy for you and Reed! God Bless and Happy Blogging!!!! <3

8.26.10

Eilas Photography - I’m praying for you guys that this will be the best decision you’ve ever made. And praying that your influence will change lives there. Congrats on following your dreams and supporting your man! You’re an awesome wife!

8.26.10

Laura Dodd - LOVE the log house!! I am SO excited for you!! Maybe one day I’ll get to visit the cutest yogurt/coffee shop ever!!

8.30.10

Krystle - Oh Kelli, you are the cat’s meow! Love the new blog look. spice it up in Montana… lord knows they need a little southern love! Looking forward to the good reads coming out way! Live it up out there girl!

9.2.10

Lindey - Enjoyed reading your posts and checking out your photos! Looking forward to seeing more updates πŸ™‚

9.5.10

Amy Conner - Oh my gosh.. I am totally dying right now!! YOU in those waders and fishing…. LOVIN IT… L.O.V.I.N IT!!! So glad you shared these photos with us… I know you are adjusting well! Let’s talk soon… really soon. Miss you!!! HUGS!

9.16.10

Hotsy Malone - Kelli & Reed!

Wow, had no idea you two were moving till I saw this blog and the sweet final party photos. I feel so blessed Kelli to have had the few precious moments we did ever manage to spend together and just hate that we never managed to make it more. I wish you both so many blessings in your new life and venture. You two are very special people.

Hey, now you can be a full fledged shopper at octobermoonboutique.com and get stuff shipped to you!!! Check out the site, I was going to call you to get some photography tips on shooting Claudette as I just can’t seem to get the lighting right when taking her shots. Maybe you can still give me a call sometime.

Love you both.